Tuesday, December 30, 2008
Friday, December 26, 2008
Saturday, December 20, 2008
Monday, December 15, 2008
Saturday, December 13, 2008
Big Day
Catie was so excited when we set it up in her room this morning with her new sheets and quilt. She immediately started to play on it and when it was time for her nap she slept in it for about an hour, then tonight, fell asleep immediately when we put her there. I don't know if this will become the new pattern, but it was significant enough for me to document. Maybe I'll get pictures next time.
Thursday, December 4, 2008
What's wrong with people?
Then there was the old man who approached my husband FROM BEHIND (and stayed at his shoulder) while we were sitting in church with the girls and suggested VERY RUDELY that we take them to the nursery so that they weren't disturbing others who wanted to listen to the message. We happened to be visitors at this particular church (it was in Virginia, if you're worried that it might be your church). We had kept Catie out of the nursery b/c she was sick. She was on antibiotics and feeling better, but we didn't want her in a strange nursery and having them think we brought a sick kid to contaminate their regulars. When the man spoke to James we were barely 15 minutes into the service and Catie was just beginning to be somewhat disruptive. We hadn't even had a chance to intervene before we were reprimanded. And that's really what it felt like. James did take Catie out to the hallway and while out there, noticed that same man come out a bit later. He confronted him and asked why he was so worried about listening to the service and yet he wasn't in the sanctuary. He made up some excuse. My wonderful husband let the man know our reasons for keeping Catie out of the nursery and he asked why we didn't keep her home. "Because we go to church on Sundays", was his reply. I was so proud of him for knowing the right words and for keeping his cool when he wanted to rip this 65 yr. old ex-military man to shreds!!!
I've also had my share of old ladies in grocery stores commenting on my daughter's lack of shoes/socks/both after having removed them....BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT CHILDREN DO!!!
Well, the most recent run-in was yesterday. The girls and I were out shopping with my sister and her little girl when we decided to head to Panera for lunch. Since it was a fairly nice day, I decided to leave the girls' coats in the car. There was no wind, no snow. The sun was shining. Catie had on a long sleeved shirt and jeans. Lydia had on a long sleeved onesie and a hooded sweatshirt and sweatpants. As I walked in, I heard a lady behind me ask "Where are their coats?" I turned to see a woman in her upper-30's, dressed very stylishly, turning to leave the restaurant (I think it was because of the long line). I made enough eye contact with her to know that she was talking to me. I am not quick on my feet and could only say "In the car." As I watched her and her companion drive away in their expensive SUV, I wanted to go out and shout a few choice words at her. I wanted to know what makes her think that she knows how to care for my girls better than me. What made her think that she knew their comfort level and needs in that weather?
Do these things happen to others? Tell me your story and how you handled the situation. I need to know that I'm not the only one that gets these comments, or I might start to believe there really is something wrong with my parenting skills.
Tuesday, December 2, 2008
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
fixing myself.
My first goal has been to work on keeping the house picked up. I have done pretty good recently. I run the dishwasher at least once a day. Do at least one load of laundry a day. Vacuum twice a week. Dust when I see it's needed (maybe I should work harder on this). I fold clothes and put them away within a day of washing them. I put away toys at least once a day (this is easy, since I actually enjoy that task). I sweep the kitchen/dining room every day (or at least every other day). Mopping needs some work, but I have to start small. I'm even starting to clean the bathrooms more often. (That's a job I HATE!!!! I do it when it needs cleaning, but not until then.)
I know...some of you "neat-freaks" think I'm insane and you never want to come to my home. Keep in mind. I'm working on it. Habits are formed very slowly and that's especially true for me. I am getting better and when you do come to my house, please notice the clean places and not the ones that need a little more attention.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Catie's birthday party
We did a hayride behind the 4-wheeler. The kids LOVED it and I think it will need to be a yearly tradition. The guests were Ross (in the back of the wagon), Maggie (who is behind Cate), Jacob (next to Catie), Cora (front Left), Abby (front center), Leah and Ethan (back right) and Britton (front right). These are all kids that Catie has played with in the past and talks about regularly.
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
i didn't lie.
Highlights from the past few days include Catie pooping in the potty (no pee yet, though) and Lydia crawling with her belly off the floor, pulling herself up on furniture, and getting up onto the first stair step. The snow is a wonderful sight and I had a few friends in this afternoon so our kids could play. James works until friday and then is off for the week of Thanksgiving. What a blessing. We are going to enjoy it b/c it may not happen like that in the future.
Friday, November 14, 2008
busy, busy..
The last few weeks have been so busy. My good friend of many, many, many years moved to Missouri yesterday. Those who know me have heard me mention Jane. She is a wonderful woman of God whom I met when I was 14. At that time I started to babysit her 2 boys, ages 4 and 6. She was a great mentor to me for a long time and somewhere, somehow she became a best friend and was a co-Matron of Honor in my wedding. Her boys are now in their early 20's and there have been 2 more additions to the family...Janelle (14) and Jacob (6). I have been trying to spend a lot of time with her in the past few weeks, so that is why I have not had the time for you.
Between that, Catie's 2nd birthday, dedication for both the girls, the election (I won't even start on that, b/c it bothers me too much), a long weekend off for my husband that included dates and Christmas shopping, trying to keep up with the house, I have been soooo busy. I promise to post some pictures by Tuesday....and to tell more about the events of my life.
Monday, November 3, 2008
Catherine Margaret Auffhammer is 2
What a blessing it has been to have her in my life. Yesterday, she was dedicated at church. It was an opportunity for James and I to say, publicly, that she is only on loan to us from God. She is His child. We simply have the privilege of raising her for a short time and we will do it to the best of our ability and teach her about Him.
"I love you, my sweet Boogie."
Saturday, October 25, 2008
Papa's pumpkin patch
She loved this leaf pile.
What a sweety. She really is just as precious in real life. I wish all of you could meet her.P.S. Thank you Aunt Erds for the wonderful matchy-matchy sweatshirts!!!
on the move
Thursday, October 23, 2008
soon, Rachel, soon
Thursday, October 9, 2008
healthy, but....

Tuesday, October 7, 2008
Sunday, October 5, 2008
I'm a little scared...
I grew up in the country. I, myself, have done my share of target shooting. I understand that hunting season is coming up and this is part of living out here, but I also know that there are some REALLY stupid rednecks out there. I don't know which neighbors are shooting and I have no reason to believe that they are drunk, dumb, or otherwise incapacitated. I just know that it's possible.
My comfort is that the shots sound too far away to be our immediate neighbor. And I did notice a car at one of the hunting cabins down the road, so I'm guessing that's where the sound is from. If that's true, it's too far for a bullet to travel.
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Taking the bad with the good
Friday, September 26, 2008
cousins
Thursday, September 25, 2008
some favorite recipes
Stern's Chicken
2 cups vinegar
1 cup vegetable oil
1 egg
1/4 cup salt (yes, 1/4 CUP)
1/2 tsp. ground black pepper
1 TBSP Poultry Seasoning
Mix it together and marinate chicken overnight and grill to perfection. When I was growing up we used to have chicken like this at family reunions. My mom got the recipe from the company sometime in the past year and I make it quite regularly. Leftovers are great too.
I also made some Pumpkin Whoopie Pies for my husband, who, although he doesn't eat desserts much, will eat anything made with pumpkin.
3 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 cups sugar
2 tsp baking powder
2 tsp baking soda
1 1/2 tsp ground cinnamon
1 tsp ground nutmeg
1 tsp ground cloves
1/2 tsp salt
5 eggs
1 can (15 oz) solid-pack pumpkin
1/2 cup water
1/2 cup vegetable oil
1 tsp vanilla extract
In a large bowl, combine the dry ingredients. In another bowl, whisk together the wet ingredients and stir into the dry until moistened.
Drop by 2 tablespoonfuls 2 inches apart onto greased baking sheets. Bake at 350 degrees for 8-10 minutes. Remove to wire racks to cool.
Cream cheese filling for cookies
4 oz. cream cheese, softened
1/4 cup butter, softened
2 cups confectioners' sugar
1 tsp vanilla extract
In a small bowl, beat the filling ingredients until smooth. Spread over the bttom of half of the cookies, top with remaining cookies. Store in refridgerator.
yields 2 dozen.
Saturday, September 20, 2008
Farm City Day
The farm was HUGE. My grandpa was a farmer and so was my mom's uncle, so I grew up at farms, but this was so big...and high tech!!! There were easily 1000 cows at this place. It was also a windfarm. Check out the size of that windmill compared to those cars (the windmill is quite a ways BEYOND the parking lot.) There's been a lot of controversy over these windmills. This area was actually NOT the first choice, but the other place they wanted to put them was a wealthier area and was able to fight them in court. Here's my political view: Those wealthy people (who were only going to be affected by the view of the windmills) are probably the same people who "care" about the environment and believe in global warming. "Fix the world, hug a tree, but not the one in my back yard." The windmills are helping to promote energy independence. It's a good thing...and quite fascinating to see.
Friday, September 19, 2008
Thursday, September 18, 2008
another catie quote
Catie: Sure can.
(Who says that?!)
Wednesday, September 17, 2008
Monday, September 15, 2008
milestones
2 down....1 to go


Weekend #2: I went to camp for Ladies Retreat. Lydia was supposed to stay with Jane for the weekend, but on Friday morning she called and said Janelle was sick during the night. I spent the day trying to come up with another option. The best one I found was taking her with me, but James stepped up and said that he would keep both girls. This meant that he was not going to get things done like he had wanted. As much as he adores those girls, I know that it was a sacrifice on some level for him to do that.
I had a good weekend and even got to go shopping for an hour BY MYSELF. I realized how much I miss my alone time without responsibility. I have alone time when the girls are napping, but they are still there and I have to always be thinking about them and listening for them and worrying about them (b/c that's what I do). James did a great job and proved to himself that he is capable of having them both and doing well. I think it turned out to be easier than he thought it would be. Well....everything except those poopie diapers!!!
Next weekend starts on Friday when I have Ross and Maggie all day. And James leaves for Virginia. It will be a long weekend, but I have a few things planned.
Thursday, September 4, 2008
the weekends are spilling into the weeks
I'm a little overwhelmed now that I've written all that out. Pray for me this month. I've not been handling stress really well recently.
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
a quote from Catie
Catie: "5:30."
(I was expecting her to say "naptime" like she usually does.)
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
My favorite age
Another great thing about this age is that I understand her needs better. I know her signals when she needs to be fed or put down to sleep. She is also starting to eat pureed fruit. I enjoy feeding babies at this stage. They make a big mess the first couple of times, but after a while they get the hang of it and things smooth out.
I have found that when each of the girls have reached this stage that I don't long for the past or look forward for the future to come as quickly. I am content. And as I write this Catie just came up to me for a random kiss. I do look forward to Lydia doing that. Every stage has it's benefits.
Tuesday, August 26, 2008
The amazing race
I probably don't need to tell you this, but we won!!! My friend Amy and her husband, Jerry, were on our team and we kicked butt!!! i was very proud of myself. There was a lot of running involved and a lot of thinking. I kept up. And I'm looking forward to next year's event!!!
Wednesday, August 20, 2008
Thankful for the slave trade....? (and other Olympic thoughts)
Lolo Jones did a great job as a white girl. As a former high school hurdler, it was difficult to watch that race, but I was IMPRESSED that she stayed on her feet at all.
Shawn Johnson is adorable!!!! What a great little smile!!!
sports i'm not a fan of: wrestling, field hockey, basketball, baseball, and probably a few others.
favorite sports to watch (not in any particular order): gymnastics, swimming, diving, trampoline, volleyball, cycling, rowing, syncronized anything.
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Our backyard shrunk
Catie and Jericho running around.